A domestic violence restraining order (DVRO) can dramatically impact every aspect of your life. Whether you’re the restrained party or the protected party who no longer feels the order is necessary, California law provides a legal pathway to modify, terminate, or remove a domestic violence restraining order. However, the process can be complicated and requires a strong understanding of the court’s expectations.

At KN Law Firm, we help clients in Glendale, Los Angeles, and all surrounding Southern California cities navigate the steps required to remove a DVRO and rebuild their lives. Below is a detailed guide to help you understand the requirements and the legal strategies involved.

Understanding Domestic Violence Restraining Orders in California

Domestic violence restraining orders are civil orders designed to protect a person from abuse, threats, harassment, or stalking. These orders can include:

• Stay-away orders
• No-contact orders
• Move-out orders
• Firearm prohibitions
• Custody and visitation restrictions

Restraining orders can last anywhere from a few months to five years, and in some cases, they can be renewed indefinitely. Because the stakes are high — especially involving housing, employment, custody, and immigration — removing or modifying a DVRO must be approached carefully.

Can a Domestic Violence Restraining Order Be Removed?

Yes. A domestic violence restraining order can be removed before it expires, but only through a formal court process. Either party can request removal:

1. The Restrained Person

They must show:

• A significant change in circumstances
• Compliance with all court orders
• No ongoing threat or risk to the protected person
• Completion of required programs (e.g., anger management, DV classes)

2. The Protected Person

They must show:

• They no longer feel afraid
• The order is unnecessary
• The relationship or communication has changed

Courts take termination requests seriously because their primary goal is safety. Strong evidence and legal representation dramatically increase the chance of success.

Steps to Remove a Domestic Violence Restraining Order

1. Consult With a Domestic Violence Attorney

This is the most important step. Removing a DVRO requires:

• Correct forms
• Strong supporting documents
• Proper legal arguments
• Courtroom representation

Even small mistakes can lead to denial.

2. Gather Evidence of Changed Circumstances

Judges need to see proof that the situation is different from when the order was issued. Useful evidence may include:

• Completion of domestic violence counseling
• Anger management program certificates
• Positive co-parenting records
• Proof of no police contact
• Letters from counselors, employers, or therapists
• Communication from the protected person (if appropriate)

Courts want reassurance that lifting the order carries no risk.

3. File a “Request for Order” to Modify or Terminate

The correct forms include:

• FL-300 (Request for Order)
• FL-320 (Response) if you are responding to a motion
• Any required local court forms

Your attorney will draft the declaration explaining:

• Why the order should be removed
• Evidence supporting your claim
• How circumstances have changed

4. Attend the Court Hearing

Both parties may be allowed to speak. Expect the judge to ask questions such as:

• “Why is the restraining order no longer necessary?”
• “What steps have you taken since the order was issued?”
• “Have there been any violations of the order?”
• “Is there any ongoing threat or conflict?”

Your lawyer will present your evidence, cross-examine witnesses, and argue your case.

5. Judge Issues a Decision

The court may:

• Terminate the restraining order immediately
• Modify the restraining order (e.g., allow peaceful contact)
• Reduce restrictions
• Deny the request and keep the order in place

If denied, you can request modification later when you have additional evidence.

Common Reasons Judges Agree to Remove a DVRO

Courts look for very specific changes, including:

• No violations of the restraining order
• Successful completion of DV batterer’s intervention programs
• Stable employment and housing
• No additional police reports or conflicts
• A request from the protected person to remove the order
• Evidence the allegations were exaggerated or false
• Successful co-parenting without issues

Common Reasons a Request May Be Denied

Judges may refuse to lift the order if:

• The restrained person violated the order
• There are recent arguments or threats
• The protected party still feels unsafe
• Substance abuse treatment was not completed
• Criminal charges are pending

These risks highlight why legal representation is critical.

Frequently Asked Questions

1. Can a restraining order be removed early if both parties reconcile?

Yes — reconciliation helps, but the judge still requires a formal request and proof that removal is safe.

2. Will the restraining order still show on my record even if removed?

Yes, the history of the order may appear in background checks, but the termination will also be documented.

3. What if the protected person tries to contact me first?

You cannot respond unless the judge modifies the order — even if the protected person initiates contact.

Need to Remove a Domestic Violence Restraining Order? KN Law Firm Can Help

Whether you are trying to remove a restraining order placed against you or you are the protected party seeking to end it voluntarily, you need a knowledgeable domestic violence attorney who understands California law and local court procedures.

📞 Call KN Law Firm 24/7 at (888) 950-0011
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Our team will guide you through every step, gather evidence, prepare your filings, and fight for the best possible outcome.

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